something I have learned is the harder it is to love someone the more faith in Jesus we need and the more humble our hearts need to be. my first time at the old age home I didn’t want to touch the people or anything for that matter, even though I really wanted to love them it was hard for me to look past the surface. after going a few times I gave god my broken weak love and gave it to him and he told me that if I wanted to love theas people I was going to need him to be my strength. I then asked to be filled with with his love. after that my heart began to change, now I hug, hold them, help them bathe, do their laundry, feed them and anything else that needs to be done. I hope that helps with you loving people that are hard to love. also remember that you’re not loving them Jesus is loving them threw you. I would think of it like this. god wants to love that person and he loves that person so much that He is going to use you to love them because you are filled with god’s love and you loving that person is like you loving Jesus because Jesus is in them working in their heart.